Dear xxxxxx,
You still don't get it...its all beyond that....feelings are not it...emotion has nothing to do with it...you ever heard people quote the scripture....Romans 14:16 (Let not then your good be evil spoken of )?
I found out people who know of you, associated me with your countenance as a lady and assumed I performed the same in exchange for things. Therefore not linking themselves to me due to assuming we were two birds of a feather and we are NOT.
2 Corinthians 6:17
My father being a Nigerian man has always said the company one keeps will help or hurt a reputation...they as you may know pride themselves in their wives or girlfriends not hanging with other single women in fear of transference of habits and or ways of life. (Influence)
So to keep it simple...right now, my word holds no weight with those I've tried to convince that "I'm not like you nor my ways your ways." I'm sure you'll get me this time. So when I say there are no hard feelings there are really not. BTW, I was never arguing with you just sharing what I've felt all this while.
Cecilia Ada~
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To Add: It is very hard when people think they can do to you and say to you the things that others may allow freely. Wrestling with pigs is not the way to go. Some young women see nothing wrong with their lifestyles yet their carelessness represents us all as women! You must remove yourself away from any association that could possibly shine a negative light on your person.
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